now that piece slid into the top of my strut mount, and the nut goes on the shaft. Now, I can't really understand how what would make it softer. I will have to take it apart and check it out. Think that will really work?
i think it's because suspension travel is so limited that when you hit any small bump it will hit the jounce bumper and therefore make the suspension feel harsh. fwiw, when i had the strut boot/jounce bumpers & strut mounts out i could bounce the front end very easily by hand. with the struts now installed it's REALLY STIFF!! i can hardly bounce the front end at all. of course, i know the the suspension will be really soft with no strut to control the spring oscillation, but the KYB GR-2 struts aren't
that stiff. so i think i'm REAL close to the jounce bumpers as it is and that is why my car feels like it "rides like a tank". this whole problem might not be an issue when using stock type jounce bumpers. i completely forgot how they are installed ect (the only thing i remember is that they were yellow lol).
Damn you're up early, it was 8 am here when i posted on the east coast, you're what, mountain time out there right?
more like up really late doing laundry and cleaning my garage

i have a ton of last minute stuff to take care of before i leave for VA.