IIRC, you have to cut that same flange on the strut for the FFP C/O kit as well.
yup, you do. they even mention it on their website.
anyways i'm getting a little closer:
this is the upper lip that needs to be ground down so the sleeve fits over it:

after a few minutes with a bench mounted grinding wheel, i removed the lip:

as you can see the sleeve can now slide down to the strut body. i haven't done the one on the right yet:

to my surprise, i found that the bottom end of the sleeve has a taper that goes about 3/4" into the sleeve:

that taper actually lets the sleeve slide over the strut body about 3/8" past the welded bead:

the top of the sleeve doesn't have this taper, so it stops here:

i'm going to go grind the lip off the other strut, then bring the sleeves and struts to the machine shop. from the looks of it, they will barely need to be honed out at all to fit.